Using Male and Female "Energy" in Seminars
Using Male and Female "Energy" in Seminars:
You should be aware that if you are a male or a female (and chances are you are one or the other) you will automatically project male or female energy.
Now, of course, some men are more masculine than others. Same with women - some are more masculine compared with other women. And of course when it comes to femininity, some men and women exude that more than others as well.
But let me get to the point, in the form of asking you a question:
Are you able to deliver your seminar and adjust your male or female energy at will?
There will be times when this is extremely useful to you, and I'll give you just one example to stir your imagination here:
What if you are a woman, and you'll have to deliver a presentation, speech or seminar in front of a room full of males - and just for fun, let's say most or all of these guys belong to "the good ol' boys club". You know that club, right? They mostly believe that a woman's place is in the kitchen, right? Hey, this may be 2008, but you're fooling yourself if you think that mentality does not exist and persist to this very day.
Anyway, given the above scenario, ladies, the cards are stacked against you. You have an instant credibility problem to overcome.
What about the opposite scenario - you're a macho guy and you're going to speak to a woman's organization that fights for women's rights. Yikes! You'd better be able to know how to tone down your macho energy if you want to get your message across, my man!
How do you do it? Simple: learn to adjust your body posture to be more like a man stands and moves and gestures, and also how a woman tends to stand, gesture, posture.
Watch a woman speak in front of a group, then compare to how men speak - NOT the words - focus only on the body posture, movements and gestures. You'll see for yourself that there are definite differences. Simply memorize those differences and practice taking on the physical attributes that go along with each.
Net result: you have much more flexibility in delivering to mostly male or mostly female groups! And, your results will be much better for it.
Dedicated to maximizing your success and income with speaking and seminars -
David
PS: Not signed up for the ASA Seminar Success Daily Quick Tips?- it's fast, easy and best of all free - click here for more info.
You should be aware that if you are a male or a female (and chances are you are one or the other) you will automatically project male or female energy.
Now, of course, some men are more masculine than others. Same with women - some are more masculine compared with other women. And of course when it comes to femininity, some men and women exude that more than others as well.
But let me get to the point, in the form of asking you a question:
Are you able to deliver your seminar and adjust your male or female energy at will?
There will be times when this is extremely useful to you, and I'll give you just one example to stir your imagination here:
What if you are a woman, and you'll have to deliver a presentation, speech or seminar in front of a room full of males - and just for fun, let's say most or all of these guys belong to "the good ol' boys club". You know that club, right? They mostly believe that a woman's place is in the kitchen, right? Hey, this may be 2008, but you're fooling yourself if you think that mentality does not exist and persist to this very day.
Anyway, given the above scenario, ladies, the cards are stacked against you. You have an instant credibility problem to overcome.
What about the opposite scenario - you're a macho guy and you're going to speak to a woman's organization that fights for women's rights. Yikes! You'd better be able to know how to tone down your macho energy if you want to get your message across, my man!
How do you do it? Simple: learn to adjust your body posture to be more like a man stands and moves and gestures, and also how a woman tends to stand, gesture, posture.
Watch a woman speak in front of a group, then compare to how men speak - NOT the words - focus only on the body posture, movements and gestures. You'll see for yourself that there are definite differences. Simply memorize those differences and practice taking on the physical attributes that go along with each.
Net result: you have much more flexibility in delivering to mostly male or mostly female groups! And, your results will be much better for it.
Dedicated to maximizing your success and income with speaking and seminars -
David
PS: Not signed up for the ASA Seminar Success Daily Quick Tips?- it's fast, easy and best of all free - click here for more info.
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